If You're Struggling to Orgasm at All... How many times have you laid there while your partner is eating you like a Chinese buffet only to get super close to coming and lose it? (Raises hand.)
It could be due to primary orgasmia, a condition that prevents women from having an orgasm. According to Millheiser, women who experience this have a similar profile. Usually she's type A and in her early 20s. For these women, they can experience the pleasurable buildup but lose it out of the blue. "They're usually young (but not always) and otherwise healthy," Millheiser says. "Often times it's a mental situation they're not allowing themselves to go over that hill. It can be fear of the unknown or loss of control." Again, Millheiser says practicing mindfulness is a great way to overcome this sexual speed bump. So focus on your partner's breathing. Once they direct the attention to you, focus on the sensations happening in your body.
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