Greys, Black and White: Neutrals can be worn with just about anything (look how gorgeously Nyong'o's purple lips stand out against her black and white dress), but lighter grey shades are particularly flattering with purple according to Tokarz, because they impart a cleaner, softer look.

Blush: Pale pink tones can offer a feminine look for summer or for daytime. Go ahead --try it at the office.

Blues: Whether you choose navy blue or pale blue, you can showcase two completely different looks, says Tokarz. Navy can look sultry with a violet lip and darker eye makeup, whereas the pale blue with soft hair and light eye makeup will look sweet and subtle. Navy is also a softer alternative to black attire, says Reichle. "Navy appears less severe on women of a certain age."