If Your Partner Isn't Making It Happen for You... Usually, this comes down to the simplest -- and yet hardest -- piece of advice: Communication. "Most people don't get any kind of sex education that covers how to give your partner pleasure," says Cavanah. "The way it happens in movies where 'the one' knows exactly the right way to give you a mind-blowing orgasm is a myth."
Good sex works because people talk to each other about it, she says. You can't read your partner's mind, so you shouldn't expect them to try to read yours when you're being intimate. Millheiser says it's important for women to express to their partner what it is they're enjoying in bed." Even randomly telling your partner what gets you going in bed in the middle of the afternoon is sexy," Millheiser says. So make it fun and give your boo some praise.
If there's not much to praise these days, Millheiser recommends this no-fail trick: Handwriting. "Take your partners hands and place them exactly where you want them to be," Millheiser says. "In doing so, you're guiding your partner to the pleasure centers of your body and receiving the stimulation you want."
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