Hate to exercise? These expert tips will motivate you to reach for your running shoes
November 4, 2011
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Sarah Carrillo | 59 COMMENTS
The Excuse: "My life's depressing/stressful enough, I'm not adding exercise to it" If you're dealing with a job you hate, a stressful home life, or any major (or even minor) life crises, exercising is probably the last thing you want to do. But really, it should be the first. Exercise boosts endorphins and allows you to handle stress better (both by releasing stress during the actual workout and building up your stamina to deal with life in general). If you can't get out of your slump, here are two tactics to try:
First, re-work your thought process. Instead of saying, "I must work out," say, "I choose to work out." Vokshoor says "choose" statements are healthier for your brain, and those "must" statements keep you from reaching a workout-induced euphoria.
Next, practice gratitude. In a study where one group was told to keep track of things they were grateful for and another group was told to keep track of their hassles, the gratitude group was found to exercise about 90 minutes more per week than the hassle group. It makes sense when you think about it: Mulling over the raise you didn't get or how far away the gym is isn't exactly going to motivate you to get up off the couch.
This article does a nice job at pointing out hurtles in adopting a lifestyle of working out. It does not however emphasize the lifestyle changes needed to keep fit beyond working out. Simply creating habits like walking a mile to work from the bus stop and going out of your way to be thoughtful of the food you eat, makes a much greater difference in health than a rigorous work out regime without lifestyle change.
excuses come so easily! i used to do that and ever since i just stopped making them, i have been feeling so much better about myself and it feels great!
Well, I agree with some of the excuses that were listed in this article. However- I have heard many women who are "super fit" say they don't like to work out. The difference is, they may say they don't like to work out, but they do it anyway. Over-weight or out of shape women make the excuse and don't do it anyway. There is a BIG difference between the two. But alas, I am one of those women who have used nearly all excuses and I currently do not follow a work out routine. I am not super fit, but not overweight or heavy.
@minibear--I'm fit, but I have to admit, I don't like working out a lot of the time. I don't feel like it. But I do like how I feel afterwards. It's not as awesome as a "runner's high" necessarily, but that was one fewer hour sitting on the couch, and I actually worked on making my body stronger.
I've definitely mumbled some of these excuses before. I was in true need of a wake up call! It's good to think of exercise as a way to stay healthy and not just as a weight-loss tool.
I especially like the advice about "choosing" to exercise, rather than feeling like you HAVE to. The trick is to get started and make it a habit. Eventually I find myself working out regularly because it's part of my routine.
One excuse that really hit home was "My life's stressful enough..." This portion of the article really helped me understand how my frame of mind, while I thought was helping, in fact hindered me. I'd been telling myself that I HAVE to go workout and I HAVE to stop eating certain foods, which made me want to do them even less. So much of my energy was placed on having to get these things done that it was more of an obligation and a chore than something fun and exciting that I could feel proud of.
Great article. I hate to hear peoples 1001 excuses for not working out but then complaining about their health/weight. I work out alot because I'm in the Army (so no excuses for me). People have to take responsibility for their lives.
super fix chicks, have certain personality traits which is why they enjoy working out. it makes them feel good. exercising is an activity, and if you don't enjoy it you'll make excuses.
Okay, so here's my excuse: I have a chronic, disabling condition (CFIDS - Chronic Fatigue Immune Dysfunction Syndrome) that makes most forms of exercise impossible (or at least a Really Bad Idea) for me. That said, however, I still managed to find a really great low-impact arthritis exercise class at my local YMCA. No cardio at all (which is important, since aerobic exercise is contraindicated for people with CFIDS - our bodies don't process it the way normal, healthy people's bodies do), but at least I'm getting in the pool twice a week and moving. I've found it really helps a lot with the pain - when I have to miss a class for whatever reason, I feel a lot worse than usual.
So...hmmm...I guess that's not much of an excuse, since I'm actually getting out there and exercising anyway, and boy, it sure punches holes in everybody else's excuses too: If I can get my disabled CFIDS-ridden butt to the Y twice a week for some exercise, all you normal healthy people have *no* excuse... ;-)
At 57, I have finally been able to get past all the excuses and focus on what I am doing for myself. After seeing Mom become feeble and unable to do what she wanted (especially travel), I vow not to follow in her footsteps.