7 Flaws Your Date Will Notice

hmm, interesting

by Monique3 Thursday, February 7, 2013 at 08:08AM Report as inappropriate

Nice to know!

by EricaF123 Thursday, December 27, 2012 at 03:35PM Report as inappropriate

A big nose! That's awful! A guy should love you for who you are!!

by kc99012 Saturday, September 1, 2012 at 04:16PM Report as inappropriate

face fuzz hahaha, i guess that's true!!

by LeSucre Friday, July 6, 2012 at 12:36AM Report as inappropriate

actually, my boyfriend couldn't care less about most of these things.

by liliofthevalley Thursday, May 24, 2012 at 06:19PM Report as inappropriate

great tips

by Nicole2814 Thursday, April 26, 2012 at 05:21PM Report as inappropriate

well, this doesnt boost my self esteem, but its true....

by olkrav319 Monday, April 9, 2012 at 05:08PM Report as inappropriate

I really wasn't TOO offended by this article... I have been trying to get rid of my acne and dark circles... but when they mentioned big nose I almost started to cry, because I have a big nose that I've always hated, and contouring really dosn't make it look smaller at all :,\

by Brightface Tuesday, April 3, 2012 at 08:33PM Report as inappropriate

Too bad I have a few of these, including the big nose. It makes me mad when people mention my big nose, and it makes me want to keep it even more, to prove that I love myself just the way I am, that i'm confident, and i'm slowly learning to love my face. I don't think I should have to hide my big nose under makeup (I do however use makeup to cover acne marks, but the nose makeup idea is just outrageous) just for some guy who should like me just the way I am, and other women should be the same.

by watsername23 Thursday, March 29, 2012 at 07:34PM Report as inappropriate

guys, this stuff was proven in an issue on cosmopolitan. plus, you read it and you wanted to know. they told you. dont get mad at the for that.

by HKelsey Tuesday, December 20, 2011 at 11:28PM Report as inappropriate

I did not like reading this article. I'm glad to see I'm not the only one...

by patricia89 Saturday, December 10, 2011 at 02:59PM Report as inappropriate

Wow, if I dated a guy that was this superficial, he'd outta there real quick...

by Only1KimmieD Friday, October 14, 2011 at 08:31AM Report as inappropriate

This makes it seem like we're all at the man's mercy and we have to try to be as desirable as possible to get him to like us. Kinda seems like an article you would read in 1950, not 2011.

by j_orestano Monday, September 12, 2011 at 06:02AM Report as inappropriate

I think the person that wrote this article should be fired.

by pearlseyes Sunday, September 11, 2011 at 10:23PM Report as inappropriate

This is nonsense. All guys are different and find different things attractive or not attractive. But I don't know any guy that would turn down a girl because of frizzy hair or a few pimples or short fingernails. DIRTY fingernails or poor hygiene maybe I can see, but there are a lot of guys who don't like long fingernails, or think they're gaudy. This article is incredibly superficial. . .

by RhamiJaguar Sunday, September 11, 2011 at 08:25PM Report as inappropriate

I guess you really want ladies to feel bad

by porsha_coleman_mcdaniels Sunday, September 11, 2011 at 08:06PM Report as inappropriate

Hmmm, well I'm glad my hubby was able to look past my big nose, frizzy hair and spotty acne. And I'm also glad I didn't meet any guy who was immediately turned off by any of those things. Very superficial article. Tisk Tisk.

by smorgan865 Sunday, September 11, 2011 at 07:29PM Report as inappropriate

Thankfully I've never had to deal with guys like that.

by zoeysdown Saturday, September 10, 2011 at 10:24PM Report as inappropriate

I have yet to meet the kind of guys that you talk about in this article.

by zoeysdown Saturday, September 10, 2011 at 10:12PM Report as inappropriate

I better get a nose job. Guys like superficial girls with trouble breathing who are over-medicated to get rid of acne and other imperfections.

by BostonBadHair Saturday, September 10, 2011 at 08:10AM Report as inappropriate

To Total Beauty, feminism was obviously something that happened to other people. What happened to being comfortable in your own skin? If you have wrinkles, acne or an unorthodox nose, odds are, you're probably obsessing about it too much already- far much than any man worth attention would.

by magdalena_berg_eikner Saturday, September 10, 2011 at 05:16AM Report as inappropriate

great now I have to be even more paranoid then I was before!

by Bon_Bon Monday, August 15, 2011 at 12:28AM Report as inappropriate

this article was disappointing. the jab at the "big nose" seems like an open invitation to a rhinoplasty- and from a site like "total beauty", which celebrates all ideas of beauty, should know better than to write an article like this. women shouldn't have to "downplay" any of their natural features to have to feel accepted by a man. instead we should be proud of what we have and celebrate it .

by tokyonista Monday, July 4, 2011 at 05:48PM Report as inappropriate

According to this article it's a miracle I was ever able to get my now-husband to go on dates with me at all. I had a zit or two when we first met and frizzy hair (long and stressful day work) and he still wanted my phone number.

by lastbornsiren Thursday, June 30, 2011 at 02:39PM Report as inappropriate

funny. Some True. Some well..

by tiffany_gallehugh Thursday, June 30, 2011 at 02:23PM Report as inappropriate

Haha I love how the first one is acne. And big nose? Really? Ah totalbeauty sometimes you reallly crack me up.

by naughtnone Monday, June 13, 2011 at 04:37PM Report as inappropriate

wow they notice alot. maybe i should go back to the womb and start over!

by AmandaAmanda Saturday, May 14, 2011 at 12:03PM Report as inappropriate

this really is a self-esteem breaking article. some of these are good tips for helping women correct things that might make them feel less-than-beautiful, but presenting it as "men don't want to see your wrinkles" doesn't seem very productive!

by mlenaei Thursday, April 14, 2011 at 08:56AM Report as inappropriate

Wow... I agree with the ladies below. Yeah, men might NOTICE those things about women, but they probably aren't dealbreakers--I NOTICE those things about guys, but wouldn't judge them based on those things. This is a really disappointing article. Ladies, wear makeup that makes you feel good and don't worry about it.

by LipglossandSpandex Sunday, April 10, 2011 at 09:47PM Report as inappropriate

I agree with sophisticateJAE... Embrace your uniqueness! Don't change the way you look just to be with someone. Everyone is beautiful. And, writers of this, I am sure the intent was to focus on the makeup aspect of contouring but this really comes across that men care only about superficial qualities.

by themakeupcat Tuesday, March 22, 2011 at 05:22PM Report as inappropriate

Geez..this article doesn't make men sound very nice!

by LittleBunny Friday, February 11, 2011 at 03:32PM Report as inappropriate

LOL to the pynknymphette's cockblock comment. i was thinking the same exact thing as i read this!

by kenya Sunday, December 26, 2010 at 11:09PM Report as inappropriate

These are all things women notice about men too. I have had plenty of guys come up to me and I turn them down because of their appearance or attitude. I think pretty much everyone does it. The big nose thing is kind of weird... OH! And how come when I tried to leave a review for Nars 0grasm blush I have to type in a zero instead of an actual "O" to make the word work and you guys get to say C0CK BLOCK?! What the eff? Censorship is retarded.

by pynkNymphette Friday, December 17, 2010 at 07:39PM Report as inappropriate

I agree with these women. This story is a little crazy. Society already has some feeling insecure or out of place with regard to looks, the last thing we needed to hear was this. We should be trying to send the message that women are all beautiful and set higher standards. Once that Is accomplished men will have to begin respecting us and rewarding us the way we should be treated. Like Queens.

by Ashboo18 Thursday, November 18, 2010 at 10:13AM Report as inappropriate

A big nose?! Are you serious?! Im personally offended by that one seeing that I have a particularly wide one myself. I thank my mom for not raising a superficial and shallow gal because I LOVE my nose baby! This advide column is depressing to insecure women out there. Do better and focus on more positive issues such as how to better ones' self professionally rather than attack their genetic makeup.

by sophisticateJAE Tuesday, March 2, 2010 at 09:20AM Report as inappropriate

This makes me sick. "Whether it's cars or women, men like things in mint condition." What is this, 1950? Women as flawless objects whose only purpose is to live up to an oppressive, superficial male fantasy? If any man actually fits the characterization in this article, he is worthless. I can't imagine the man OR woman who could write something like this and live with themselves. I hope no woman out there will give it a second thought.

by deareliza Monday, October 26, 2009 at 03:03PM Report as inappropriate

This makes me sick. "Whether it's cars or women, men like things in mint condition." What is this, 1950? Women as flawless objects whose only purpose is to live up to an oppressive, superficial male fantasy? If any man actually fits the characterization in this article, he is worthless. I can't imagine the man OR woman who could write something like this and live with themselves. I hope no woman out there will give it a second thought.

by deareliza Monday, October 26, 2009 at 03:03PM Report as inappropriate

As if a woman would ditch a guy if he had frizzy hair or a big nose. This is the stupidest thing I have ever seen!

by ladycattat Sunday, October 25, 2009 at 08:37AM Report as inappropriate

Agreed. I feel like this would make a woman feel too preoccupied about what men want. Sorry totalbeauty...i didn't feel this one

by yaranas Thursday, October 22, 2009 at 06:22PM Report as inappropriate