Hey Toddfan,

Yeah, dyeing your hair is definitely drying. I would try to limit your shampooing and heat styling and load up on conditioner. You can check out some of the best deep conditioners here: http://www.totalbeauty.com/content/gallery/best-deep-conditioners

Thanks. That was helpful!

Definitely do a deep conditioner.  Try Argan Oil deep conditioner.  Wash your hair, then put the Argan Conditioner on your hair for at least 1/2 hour with a plastic shower cap over it.  Then rinse it out.  Do this twice a week. 

In the interim find a good leave in conditioner and spray it on your hair daily and don't rinse it out.  I can't think of one right now, but go to a drugstore or Sephora or Ulta.  You will see a marked difference in your hair.

You can also put the Argan Conditioner on at night on dry hair, and shampoo the next day.  This works really well, too.

I also agree with a deep conditioner. It will make your hair feel so much better. What brand did you use that dried out your hair so much? Didn't it come with a deep conditioner in the box?