my face has gone absolutely crazy. it's been very dry and flakey and no amount of lotion seems to help, or exfoliating, nothing helps. then on top of that i have pimples and oily spots. i thought too much lotion might not be helping but i just put a little on at night and some after i wash my face in the morning. without it my skin feels very tight and dry. with it my face gets oily but there are still dry flakey spots. also the dry and oiliest parts of my face are in my tzone, mostly my nose and forehead. any ideas on how to get my skin under control?