I must admit i shampoo and condition my hair every other day/ every day.....thats prob the problem. But I CANT STAND oily feeling in my hair and i love the way it looks when its conditioned :D so theres all this fly away hair at my roots when i brush my hair and then i try to wet it down it just comes back up when it dries. I also use a brush and panteene pro v shampoo/conditioner. how can i get my hair to stay down?